Estate Director / Director of Private Service

Job Category: Private Service & Family Office
Job Type: Full Time
Location - City: Palm Beach
Location - State: Florida

Job Category: Private Service & Family Office
Job Type: Full Time
Location – City: Palm Beach
Location – State: Florida
Palm Beach, FL
Full-time | $175,000–$250,000 base + discretionary bonus

About the Role

We’re seeking an experienced Estate Director to lead the service, staffing, vendor, and household operations for a private principal or family office environment. This role requires exceptional judgment, discretion, emotional intelligence, and the ability to bring calm structure to a complex, high-expectation private setting.

The ideal candidate has experience supporting UHNW principals and understands the nuance of private service: anticipating needs, protecting privacy, managing details quietly, and leading teams without unnecessary visibility or ego.

Key Areas of Ownership

Estate & Household Operations

  • Oversee daily operations across one or more residences, including staffing, vendors, maintenance, service standards, calendars, and household readiness
  • Ensure the home environment is consistently prepared, organized, secure, and aligned with the principals’ preferences
  • Manage household manuals, procedures, inventories, project lists, and service expectations

Staff Leadership & Performance

  • Lead house managers, personal assistants, chefs, housekeepers, drivers, security, maintenance teams, or other private service staff
  • Establish clear expectations, schedules, coverage plans, and communication protocols
  • Support recruiting, onboarding, coaching, and retention of high-quality household talent

Vendor, Project & Budget Oversight

  • Manage vendor relationships, service contracts, capital projects, household budgets, and expense tracking
  • Coordinate with architects, designers, contractors, property managers, security teams, and family office representatives
  • Ensure work is completed discreetly, on time, and to the appropriate standard

Principal Support & Discretion

  • Anticipate needs around travel, events, guests, seasonal transitions, entertaining, and household priorities
  • Maintain absolute confidentiality and professionalism in all communications and decisions
  • Serve as a trusted operational partner who reduces complexity for the principals and family office

What You Bring

  • 10+ years of private service, estate management, family office, luxury hospitality, yacht, aviation, or high-touch service leadership experience
  • Proven ability to lead private staff and complex household operations with discretion and polish
  • Strong vendor management, budgeting, scheduling, communication, and project coordination skills
  • Experience supporting UHNW principals, multi-residence estates, or highly confidential environments strongly preferred
  • Calm, proactive, highly organized, and comfortable operating behind the scenes
  • Flexibility for occasional travel, weekends, or seasonal schedule demands as needed

What We Offer

  • Competitive salary range of $175K–$250K DOE
  • Discretionary bonus potential
  • Medical, dental, and vision benefits or stipend depending on structure
  • PTO and paid holidays
  • Relocation or housing support may be considered for the right candidate
  • Opportunity to support a highly respected private household or family office with long-term stability

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